Whatever you feel comes from “inside.” External events may influence your emotional state and your feelings, but only with YOUR permission. When you understand that you and only you can control how you feel at this moment in time, you will be on your way to taking responsibility for your life! Often times we have […]
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Morph Yourself
Interacting with others can be one of the most challenging things that you do throughout your life. Think about it. Everywhere you look, there is a “relationship.” You have a working relationship with your boss, co-workers, customers, and vendors. At home, you have a relationship with your mate, children, neighbors, door-to-door sales people, garbage person, […]
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Sometimes in your life you may hit a point where you feel that no matter what you do, it is not “enough.” You may try to keep your positive attitude and apply the techniques that we have discussed, but find that you are struggling to stay “positive” and happy. There may be times in your […]
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“Do you remember the day we met?” “Yes, like it was yesterday.” “Things seemed so much easier back then.” “I think now they seem easier, but when we were in it, it seemed difficult. Although, we didn’t yet have a family and had a lot less things to worry about.” “I wonder if we’ll look […]
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“It’s okay, I’ll help you.” “I know, it just seems that nothing goes my way.” “That may be what it seems, but if that’s what you believe, that is all you will see. Maybe you should change your belief to, ‘everything goes my way’ and see what happens.” “Mom, that’s a good idea. I’ll try […]
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When a person knows that they are loved, they have a sense of comfort. They know that they are a “lovable person.” They are able to express their love for others. A life with love, is a life of living. When we feel the love that others have for us, we understand the deep-rooted connection […]
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Whenever we feel that we are unloved, we need to look inward to see whether or not we love ourselves. When we have love inside of us, we see love everywhere. When we have love inside of us, we have love to “give away.” When we have love inside of us, we have he capability […]
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Life is full of little “detours” that can sometimes seem rather large at the moment. When you find yourself in the midst of an unexpected toppling of your carefully laid plans, you might take a deep breath, recompose yourself and move forward. When we can learn to let go of the little complications in life […]
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“Which way do you want to go?” “I don’t know yet. I think we should decide when we get there.” “Yah, depending on how it looks, that might be a good way to do it.” The friends continued the drive to an unknown destination. They were on a trip with little plans, and little preconceived […]
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Sometimes, we have a tendency to make our lives more difficult than they need to be. We subconsciously take something that could be easy, and make it hard. It is when we are in this “mode” that we almost feel we do not deserve a life of ease and joy. You must understand that it […]
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