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Accept Everyone

Yesterday, we talked about forgiving others.  Today, we would like to talk about acceptance.  To “accept” another, is to allow that person to be who they are, and to act in a manner that suits them.  When we attempt to “change” another person, or we sit and wish that they were different – we are […]

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Let Go and Forgive

Yesterday we talked about owning your part of disagreements.  Today, we would like to talk about the concept of forgiveness.  When you begin to understand that you play a role in all disagreements, or relationship “issues” you have with another, you begin to open up to the idea of forgiveness. There are times when it […]

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Own Your Part

“I’m really sorry.  I didn’t mean to hurt you.” “That’s okay, just try not to do it again.  What you said really hurt me, though.” “I know, I really didn’t mean anything by it.” “Okay, I forgive you.  Let’s go eat.” Ω Can you imagine this dialog?  It might be two good friends,  two young […]

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Foot Prints

The foot prints become less visible as the people converge onto the beach.  The distinctive “prints” of each person become part of the bigger “collage” created by the masses.  What prints do not get merged together eventually are washed away as the waves “erase” the beach allowing for the sand to “reset” for a new […]

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Brotherhood

“You can do it,”  said the boy.  “Next time, just twist a little more and get a bit more pop out of the board.” “Do you think so?”  the boy replied to his brother. “Yes, you were really close.  Try it again.” Brothers work together to encourage each other whenever they need it.  They understand […]

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No One Fully Understands You

Who are you?  Do you have any idea “who” you really are?  Are you a caring, loving, person?  Do you have compassion for yourself and for others?  Are you smart, happy, and full of joy?  Are you the opposite of those things?  Does anyone ever really know who they are? Do you sometimes think you […]

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Appreciate What You Have

Why is it that we often pay more attention to someone we first meet than our mate, or our family and close friends?  Why is it that the mystique of meeting someone new and finding out about their life seems more interesting than talking with familiar faces? It is only natural in life to look […]

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Focus on the Strengths

The players huddle as the coach  explains the situation.  “We have the lead, but they are going to foul and force us to the line.  We are going to substitute for our best free throw shooters.”  Johnny removed his warm up gear and proceeded to check into the game.  This was his chance to prove […]

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The Eagle and the Mouse

The eagle flew high overhead keeping a watchful eye for his prey below.  The field mouse scurried about picking up remnants of grain to feed his family.  The fox, stepped every so slowly in the tall grasses looking for his own prey. All of these animals have a “world” of their own for which they […]

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The Art of Allowing

You sit at your desk waiting for a phone call to begin the teleconference meeting.  As you think about the agenda for the meeting, you begin to wonder whether or not you are over-stepping your bounds.  The phone rings, and the meeting begins.  You step into your knowing and present your “off-the-wall” ideas.  There is […]

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