Whenever we feel that we are unloved, we need to look inward to see whether or not we love ourselves.  When we have love inside of us, we see love everywhere.  When we have love inside of us, we have love to “give away.”  When we have love inside of us, we have he capability to “receive love.”

Feeling unloved, is sometimes the ego at play.  The ego attempts to convince you that you are “separate” from the world.  Sometimes, the ego enjoys convincing you that you are “alone.”  That makes you feel justified in your negative emotions.  The ego feeds on the justification for negative feelings.

Take for example, a person who has a fear of “abandonment.”  When we place energy around any fear, the universe does not distinguish between the “type” of energy, but rather, looks to any energy for attraction.  When you place energy around a fear of abandonment, that is what you will see in your reality.  You will see instances of so-called abandonment towards you by others.  You may start to feel “left out” of social gatherings by friends and family.  You may start to feel a little “left out” at work, and in other areas of your life.

When we change our fear of abandoned to one of “I am loved,”  we will begin to see cases of “being loved” in our reality.  We will see that there is much love to be felt in your day, but may have been overshadowed by the fear that has much more energy behind it.   If you can let go of the fears, and reach deep into your heart to see that love is all there really is, you will begin to see the love others have for you, and you for them.

The love to be felt begins at love for ourselves.  You must first love yourself.  There may be aspects of behaviors and traits that you find difficult to love, but you must know that you are on a journey of growth.  With growth, those traits that you find less than desirable are necessary for your journey to grow.

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Give up the notion of the “fantasy love” that is often depicted in theatre.  Let go of defining how love “should be” and how others should “treat” you.  Accept the love for how it is and refuse the notion of abandonment.  When you feel only love, and give only love, you will see that abandonment is a myth.

Written Tue, Jul 22, 2014 7:56 – 8:05 AM MT