When we know deep down that someone loves us, then why is it so hard at times to forgive them?   If we truly want to allow the relationship to continue, without obstruction, we must be willing to truly forgive.

What does it mean to “truly forgive?”  When we truly forgive someone, we are saying to ourselves that we understand that all beings in physical bodies make mistakes.  We are showing an understanding for the so-called “wrong” or “mistake” that someone made towards us.  We then go deep inside of ourselves and listen to our heart.   We look at whether or not this relationship is important to us.  We try to see the relationship in the future.  If we feel the other person in the relationship is “lifting us” rather than “pulling us downward” we might want to continue it.

When we feel the relationship does not have the future that we desire, we might consider letting it go.  However, even in relationships that are ended, we still need to find forgiveness within ourselves.  Without forgiveness, the obstruction of energy in your life will not be released.   When too many of those “obstructions” are present, the energy is slowed tremendously impacting your life over and over again.

Forgiving another is not saying the words “I forgive you.”  No, that implies that you think the other person was wrong – when they may not feel that way at all.  Forgiving begins with sitting quietly and reaching deep into your heart in such a way that you can feel the emotions of the “pains” that you may have experienced.   It then goes into understanding why the other person may have done whatever it is they did that caused you pain.  If you cannot find a valid reason, move forward.   Let yourself be okay with, “I don’t know why they did it, but it was the best they knew at the time” and move forward with forgiving them.

When we release the obstruction within our heart by forgiving others for the pains they may have caused us, we are allowing them to live and we are allowing ourselves to live!   Let go of the need to hang onto all of the wrongs that others have done to you.  When you can do that you are on your way to great things.

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Forgiveness comes from the heart and releases the blockages that obstruct your life’s energy.  Let go of the need to hang onto those blockages, for you must also realize that you yourself most likely have caused pains and blockages in others.  Release their “wrongs” so that someday others might release yours!

Written, Tue, Oct 13, 2015 8:17 – 8:27 AM MDT