“Would you like to go to a movie?”

“Sure, what would you like to see?”

“I don’t care, you can pick.”

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We have talked about the importance of finding “me time,”  but it is also important to find one-on-one time with others.   When you have “personal time” with another, you get the opportunity to connect at a potentially deep level.

When you are first courting your mate, you may have had lots of time together with just the two of you.  It is during those encounters that you can really get to know one another.   During larger gatherings, you also can watch, listen and observe each other, which provides much information as well, to understand “who they are.”

As you develop the relationship, and for years and decades later, though, it is important to find time to spend with one another.  Time that is not involved in “doing anything” of significance, but just “being together.”  We recommend you put yourselves in a situation where you can talk about anything and everything that comes to mind.  When you really love someone, there is no need for insecurities, for you should be able to talk about virtually anything that you feel is important.

When was the last time, you had an opportunity to have a one-on-one conversation with your mate, each of your children, or a good friend?  If it’s been awhile, you might want to make it happen.  See where things go, and really attempt to get past the “niceties,” and really connect.  Talk about things that are “bigger” than you both.  Talk about things that are “longer” than your lifetimes.  See where it leads, and check to see if you both feel energized and motivated afterwards.

Sometimes, when we meet with another person, we spend a lot of time talking about the “drama of the day” for one or both of us, and spend little time, if any, talking about the “big things.”  The big things are universal, and timeless.  The “big things” are eternal.  Who knows what the “big things” are, for they are different for everyone.   However, when you open up to that type of thinking, you are opening yourself up to making the ultimate “connection” with your inner self.

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Take the time to get to know the people in your life for which you care very much about.  One of the best ways to do that is to have one-on-one conversation!

Written Fri, Aug 8, 2014 7:57 – 8:05 AM MT